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Hello all,
I would just like to say that crossdressing males come from all walks of life. Many of them are married with families and their needs can be somewhat restricted, especially if other family members do not have the same understanding. In many cases, the crossdressing male can start at a young age, possibly an innocent game or something heard or seen may spark the interest.
The difference is that the true crossdresser, continues his "interest" throughout his life. Many crossdressers feel guilty, due to the fact that crossdressing is generally shunned throughout society. They can even go as far as getting rid of all their "girlish" items in the hope that they will be cured and start a clean slate. This is usually short lived and before long, they are back out there shopping for more things. If it keeps up like that, they will eventually find themselves losing money from buying all of the items, each time they have a change of heart.
Possibly, the best way it to just keep everything and lock it away until it is needed again. Trying to give it all up completely may work for awhile, but eventually the need returns and ignoring it is just next to impossible.
Crossdressing itself is usually only accepted by the general public, when it is an act on stage or similar. Some crossdressers are fortunate enough to have an understanding partner, who will help them when needed. These are the lucky ones.
Please try to be as understanding to these people as possible. Most of them are definitely not bad and all they just need is a little acceptance.
Another peaceful thought from Roberta.
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10 of 15MorePS I GET ALONG WITH WOMAN MORE SO THEN MEN UNLESS THEY ARE VERY CULTURED LIKE PRINCE LIECHTSTENSTIEN OR OTHERS I KNOW
HI I DO KARLA KNIPTION I LIKE THE FUN OF IT AND I LOVE WOMAN I HAVE FRIENDS WHO CROSS DRESS I HAVE MET FOLKS WHO HAD SEX CHANGES I PUT MY STUFF ON MAIN MEDIAS I FEEL GOOD DOING IT I POST KARLA ON MY YOUTUBE BLOW MY FANS MINDS
You know I did a HUGE purge this summer, and now I look around and I got nothing to wear, or any make up to wear, or any nail polish even. Now, I got to go out and try to buy some select items, as well, I am really short on cash. I sure wish i had not thrown away all those neat clothes and make up, purses, shoes, jewlery. I am so sad at doing that. To feel such a burden because you want to dress up and feel better, that is just not right. So what? Why do people care that I want to be a girl? Beth Ann
I understand,and have someone in my life who did that and then made a commitment to change what was under the dress
Well, I took hormones for a while, and well, let's just say that I look quite different in a leotard now. Another shall we say change and I will look great in a leotard and nice pair of tights. Beth Ann
It has taken me all of my adult life to pluck up the courage to go into a shop and buy some feminine clothes. I doubt I will ever tell my family and friends. I met a woman the other day who I knew from years back. She was wearing Skinhead style clothes; boots, men's jeans and polo-shirt and had short hair. No thought anything of it. She used to wear Fifties style clothing; Tight sweaters, pencil skirts, high-heels etc. If I had been similarly changed I'm sure people would have been gaping at me at the very least. Susane.
Yes, women can come in dressed in basically ANYTHING at all, and not a blink is made. NOT FAIR. I told ALL my family and friends back in 2007. Most of them are still mad at me. Good grief. Beth Ann
It may start with cross dressing and end up with sex change. It may be a hard choice to make especially when someone is married.
Does it always have to be the end of the world when someone comes to the decision to have a sex change? I mean it has been years since I informed my family of the choice to transition into a woman. They have not been happy with me since. What is the big deal if I want to be a girl? Beth Ann
Let's face it: Womens' clothes are usually a lot more interesting.
There's nothing like walking into a department store and seeing a large selection of black or brown shoes and feeling cheated, somehow.
we are who we are ... its when we cant be us that problems can occur :) welcome to kinkybits
I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN OPEN TO LOVE.WHETHER IT BE ANYONE OR ANYTHING A PERSON NEEDS,
WANTS
AND
DESIRES TO MAKE THEIR LIFE
A MORE FRUITFUL ONE.
I FIND YOU HONEST
AND FOR THAT YOU SHOULD NOT EVER
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I like your look way to go GIRL!